Any self-respecting woman who stays with a creature this disgusting is just as bad & is enabling the behavior.  It's not a matter of ignorance, it's proud homophobia and misogyny in its most blatant & visible form.  Like cooking, doing laundry & washing dishes, wiping and washing your own a$$ is something you should be doing in adulthood regardless of your sex.  These are "Adult Tasks," not "Man or Woman Tasks."   

Parents are dropping the ball somewhere in the potty training/bath time stage with their sons is all I can fathom.  Time to bring back shame as a useful tool for inspiring growth when all else has (apparently!) failed.