I cut contact with my 86y.o. narcissistic adoptive mother over a year ago now. My only regret is that I didn't do it sooner. I don't think of her as my mother anymore but as a person who misrepresented herself as being someone was was wanting to adopt me and to care for me. Instead, she treated me terribly and robbed me of the chance to be adopted by a loving family. She adopted my older sister and brother and caused them so much hurt but as I was the youngest and my dad's favourite, I copped the worst of it. I hope she rots in hell when she finally dies!