@jonsully I believe a lot of women put up with this - I’m an example .... this kind of abuse is more common than many people think. When I finally had the guts to leave, other women confided in me that they experienced similar abuse. Btw I am white, educated, privileged, management professional. I was ashamed of how I let myself be treated. My work colleagues would never have realised. The other women I know have still not left and continue to suffer in silence.