Saw the movie yesterday and LOVED it.  Not everything needs to be dissected and analysed, just enjoy it for what it is.

This type of behaviour will never stop.  I recall working for a major bank in Brisbane, and one afternoon, it was a bit quiet, so the male staff were congregated at the rear of the branch, pens in hands.  I casually walked up to them to see what they were up to, and they were drawing caricatures of what each female staffer would look like in a bikini.  I began to protest, and was told to shut my mouth, as they hadn't begun drawing me as yet.  Hopefully these guys have managed to mature somewhat and are now loving husbands and dads with daughters of their own.

Robert Sanasi can consider himself lucky that his wife gave him a second chance.  The Robert that I was married to was a worse abuser though, he abused our kids and myself for 20 years.  I feel ashamed that I let him get away with it for so long, but I always made excuses for his bad moods, and if I didn't, he could always wave it away like it was nothing.  I left him 3 times, he always promised he would change and begged me to come back, but even after one day he was back to his old ways.  It was torture, he didn't see it as abuse, as "it wasn't like I was getting hit or anything".  It's 23 years since I left, I can safely say I hate his guts, he didn't love me, he wasted what should have been the best years of my life.