This reads more like jealousy. You are in different places. You are talking about her judging people in an article absolutely written in judgement. You want different things and that is fine people grow and change but your life is no better than hers.

The whole thing reads as toxic on all sides 

I love that you gave your kids a voice, but not everything needs to be shared on tiktok/insta whatever. Sometimes these conversations are best placed in a private environment instead of broadcasting it to the world. I was with you until that point.

Isn't that what happens when you meet up for casual hook ups on bumble? 

@mustlovebooks I get gross and nasty but I can't for the life of me see racist? Can you explain it to me?

@jonsully so many more women put up with it than you think. 

I don't really get it. You spent a weekend together and in that time you have searched his wallet. Then he disappears on you, comes back I can only imagine months later for half a date and you wait outside his work and home and effectively invade his families privacy? That's pretty creepy actually. 

@beejay I love that you say they 'are not up to your intellectual.'

Why cant we all just be parents? Why do we need to criticise? I have people tell me a lot that I am a great mum and have it all together. I have even had a mum call me a role model for her, but really, I am just as messy as every other mum out there. Parenting isnt glamorous. I really dont think whatever kardashian that is always wears matching outfits with her baby. I am pretty sure her baby has pooed at the shops, woken up 8 times in a night with teething pain, and been vomitted on. Parenting is hard for everyone, I cant stand when people try and make out that some parents have it easy because they have a cleaner house, nicer clothes or can manage to follow directions for a cake mix. It seems like the hot mess mum is much quicker to judge than the 'fake hot mes' mum. EVERY mum struggles.