We ran out of funds and viable eggs... and I have never felt more invisible, 10 years later we have finally paid off our debt, with nothing to show for it. Unless you include a broken heart and early menopause. All of the government handouts and support are geared at parents and families it's like insult to injury!  Friendships have been lost and family fractured. I am lucky beyond words that the man beside me, supports, loves and makes me laugh everyday, I hope your journey ends in success because the alternative is a constant battle of keeping your head above water!