@mamamia-user-482898552 exactly and in most situations, not having children is a choice therefore, I can’t understand  why those that have made this choice be punished with holding the fought for those that have to run to their “second job”, as many put it. Bottom line is that having a children is a choice and lifestyle you choose and not one your colleagues have to accomodate for you. 

Some people really need to learn how to be a friend and reserve judgment on their own lives only. Such comments are hurtful and in no way productive to someone’s healing. I wish you and your family the best. Not all situations are the same. You do what you see best for yourself.