I complimented a younger girl on her choker; she blushed and said “thank you”.  I asked her if she knew what it meant.  She coyly batted her eyes and “yes, of course”.  We’ve been dating for 3 months, great sex, it’s 100% true.  She’s super submissive but that’s who she is and that’s what she wants; so who would have any problem with that?  Some women know exactly what they’re doing/wearing and they do it for very specific reasons.  As far as she’s concerned, she won.