@anonymous I mean that’s  just rude isn’t it? If you’re friends than you know when your friend is an introvert and needs time to themselves. I think it’s just having less respect for others time in 2020.

I’ve come to realise that whilst I’ve always been a committer (and so has my partner) many of my friends are flakers. Even right now I’m trying to organise a catch up with a formally close friend who has never been phenomenal at quick responses but we’ve been friends for 10 years so I persevere. I started a conversation about catching up in August and she took 11 days to respond. Each time I’ve responded she’s taken another week to respond, to the point where the brunch we’ve organised is for 5 days from now and we have no actual plans besides a date 😂. I’ve kind of already decided this is the last chance for me, I don’t need to waste anymore of my time on people who don’t respect my time in return. It’s a hard lesson to learn!