Everyone experiences major life changing moments. These could be good, or not so good. In my 28 years on this earth, I have only had a few such moments. The day I married my soulmate, the day I gave birth to my beautiful boy, and the day I was diagnosed with stage 3 Cervical cancer.
Those words ‘You have cancer’ were given to me exactly one year ago to this very day. I was 27. My life radically changed. From the moment I was given the news I made a promise to myself that I would not hide, I would not let cancer rule.
Mamamia previously shared Riarna’s story. Read it here.
I have always fulfilled that promise, sharing my story with everyone and anyone that would listen, creating a voice for Cervical Cancer. A reminder to be aware of changes in your body and up to date with your pap smears. I took control over something that tried to control me. I did not live in fear, I lived in hope and happiness. I am a survivor.
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That's all well and good,but staying positive and saying you will not let cancer win,does not cure cancer and does nothing to help if you have terminal cancer.
Not everyone will survive it.
So true, my recent diagnosis has seen many come forward "you HAVE to stay positive!", about what? Being told its highly unlikely I'll see my children grow into adults? Stay positive about my children losing their mother? About me not being their to guide them? Protect them? The thought makes me sick to be honest. I will die because of cancer not because I'm not positive about it..