I have never suffered physical violence in any form. I have never been in an abusive relationship. I have lived a very fortunate life so far.
I will never know what it’s like to have to choose between staying with a violent spouse, or forcing my children into a precarious and unknown situation. In my time at Mamamia, I have read numerous stories from victims of domestic violence that have shaken me to my core. And after reading the transcript of Pauline Hanson‘s maiden speech, my thoughts immediately went to them.
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Pauline Hanson’s speech in the senate this week was always going to be watched closely by the public. We wanted to hear what outrageous utterances she had up her sleeve and how many people she was going to offend along the way. True to her word, she invoked her maiden speech two decades earlier and re-branded it. The new threat now is Islam. “Now we are in danger of being swamped by Muslims, who bear a culture and ideology that is incompatible with our own,” she declared.
Her disdain for Muslims is well documented. It wasn’t surprising, right? We all knew it was coming. First the Asians, now the Muslims.
It wasn’t the “Muslims” diatribe I took the most offence to. Buried near the end, was a reference to family court decisions.
Been stewing over this- did Hansen say men kill wives out of ‘sheer frustration’ at family court decisions? & say it as if it is reasonable?
— Jane Caro (@JaneCaro) September 16, 2016
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Hanson is such an embarrassment. I am involved with a DV charity, my mother taught women in refuges many years ago, and to use frustration with the court system as a reason for murder is absolutely abhorrent. Not to mention absolute rubbish. Whilst frivolous claims by women no doubt occur, they are very rare. The court system these days is much more fair. 40 years ago, the courts generally believed that the children belonged with their mother, but these days, parenting rights are much more equal, and the courts almost always seem to award sole custody to mothers only in cases where fathers genuinely cannot provide the care needed for the kids. My friend lost custody of her kids, as her ex was an unemployed would-be musician who sponged off her for years, and argued in court that he would "be there" for the kids more than she could (she spent her life working hard, because he would not!). Her wages supported his life style, which was living with his parents, strumming his guitar all day while their nanna looked after the kids. I also have a close friend going through divorce, whose ex has 50% custody, not because he wants to be with his children, but he wants to limit what he has to pay to her. His time with them is spent making them do housework while he spends time with his new girlfriend. She is too scared of him to request more custody. And I know of so many more. Pauline Hanson is a disgrace, and I cannot fathom how 600,000 voted for her.
It really sucks how impossibly hard it is to get a polite counter comment through in this thread.