By: Sandy Weiner for The Good Men Project.
He’s written over 200 online dating emails to women with few responses. If you’re wondering why women are not writing you back, check out these tips.
Dear Sandy,
I am on multiple dating sites and have sent out more than 200 messages to the various matches and search results with very few responses.
I do take time to write my first message based on her profile. I know I am not the life of the party type of guy but have never written anything crass or presumptuous. I am tall, slender, maybe even athletic, and have a full body picture on my profile. None of my pictures are home mirror photos and none look like selfies. And yes, all are fully respectable.
What might I be doing so wrong?
I do consider the possibility of making the error of living in Panama City, Florida. Moving just to find dates is a bit extreme, although that is now a serious consideration.
Please help!
Lonely in Panama City
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I have done all of these multiple times over the years with no success. Any other suggestions for people living in small towns and haven't been on dates in years???
No 1 rule to online dating - put up REAL photos - forget the filters and photoshop - and just put up natural, real-time photos.