Today, there’s a photo being shared around Australian schools.
It’s an explicit photo of a young woman.
But it’s not just one photo. It’s a type of photo.
A photo no one else was meant to see. Of a girl.
It might be a selfie, exposing the normally hidden parts of her body, intended for one other person to see, to find beautiful, to respond to.
Or, it might be a photo taken without her knowledge. A picture of her sleeping. A picture of her in a change room. A picture of her in the midst of a sexual act – usually either nude or only partially clothed.
Regardless of the complexities of the photo’s origin, one thing is certain: it wasn’t meant to be public. And that’s why people can’t stop looking.
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In August 2016, thousands of photos that had been hidden in the dark corners of classrooms and under the fingers of whispering groups of adolescent boys came to light.
Journalist Nina Funnell was told by a university student that there was a website. On it was an entire thread dedicated to sharing nude images of girls from her university.
Speaking to Mamamia, Funnell recalls clicking on the link, and it becoming “quickly apparent that it wasn’t just college students – it was high school students from all over the country”.
Top Comments
The only way that our mostly-male lawmakers, police and politicians will do something about this problem is if girls start sharing degrading nude photos of boys online. When boys' lives and futures are jeopardised, only then will our decision-makers feel empathy enough to act. The comments made by police in this article show we have made no progress as a society at all.
We need to be educating our boys about respect and the realities of being charged with sending pornography over the internet.
You are assuming it is always the boys sending the porn. Girls can be very vindictive as well. I remember 'back in the day' before social media, crude messages scrawled on doors (in the girls loo at school) regarding the sexual proclivities of their female school mates.