“So many people suffer in silence because they cannot ask for help.”
You might have seen an image crop up in your Facebook feed over the past week; a woman, with her hand over her mouth and a tiny black dot in the centre of her palm.
The woman is Jenn Hunton, a survivor of domestic violence — and the dot is the symbol of a new campaign enabling victims of violence to reach out for help.
The picture has already been shared more than 75,000 times with words from Hunton explaining its significance.
“The black dot on the hand lets professionals know you’re a really vulnerable domestic violence survivor, and that you need help but can’t ask because your abuser is watching your every move,” she says.
It is accompanied by the hashtags #blackdotcampaign, #speakout and #someoneyouknowneedshelp.
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The Black Dot Campaign was started by Danielle Tredgett — a former victim of physical, emotional and sexual abuse — who wanted to give vulnerable women a safe means to communicate with agencies, family, friends, community centres, doctors and hospital staff.
“So many people suffer in silence because they cannot ask for help,” she says in a post on the campaign’s Facebook page.
“I felt so alone with nobody to talk to… Luckily I escaped but not many people do.”
Some have criticised the campaign, saying that it could in fact endanger women if the perpetrators of violence realise what the dot stands for.
Top Comments
I do not understand the idea of putting a black dot on your hand and then posting it on social media just to show support (if you aren't an actual victim). Is this not going to confuse people on who the real victims are?
I'm always a little worried about things like this....What if the abuser reads/sees information about the campaign and see's his/her partner wearing a black dot?? Wouldn't that create another potentially dangerous situation?
That's exactly what I said to my partner when I saw it on facebook yesterday. Abuser's can read too, if they know what it means and they see it on their partner it would not be a positive thing at all. I am from a DV relationship and know for a fact if my ex saw a black dot on my hand and had read about the campaign, I would have ended up in hospital.