Whether you like it or not, ‘going viral’ is an experience most online-dwellers run the risk of being subjected to at any random moment. Sure, sometimes it goes well – but as my mate Brok Neilsen found out, sometimes it can go very, very badly.
Brok was browsing the aisles of his local Woolworths on the Gold Coast when trumpets sounded/ clouds parted/ angels appeared to reveal a very cute brunette loitering in front of the mushrooms. Enamoured, Brok quickly snapped a photo of her before she walked away, in the hope one of his friends might recognise “Mushroom Girl” and he could take her on a date.
Brok pledged to return to the mushroom aisle at the same time every night in the hope she would come back and meet him. She didn’t.
Brok's good friend Blake then decided to ramp things up by reposting the image with the playful hashtag, #HopeForBrok.
In an unexpected gust of internet wind, the photo was picked up and flung around the country, but the response was not all positive. Brok's being called a cyber stalker, a creep, and a coward.
So I decided to get in touch and set the story straight.
Hey Brok, I've known you for almost 10 years, and know fully well that you're a nice dude. But could you tell us a bit about yourself? To put a face behind the Mushroom Stalker name?
Well I'm 32 years old, currently working in events for my best friend Amar at Sass Management. On the side I also DJ, and drive for Uber as I have a little bit of debt.
My last long term relationship was over two years ago and I messed that up on my end, so it has been hard moving past it.
I finally decided two weeks ago that I felt like I was ready to get serious again.
Obviously the whole social media angle was not the way I had intended to find someone to settle down with, but if I've learnt one thing in life you take every chance as it comes.
Top Comments
What am I missing? One woman, one moment, two outfits? Shorts & white jeans. Yet article says he only saw her the once.
As for whether it's creepy. I asked myself - what it someone did that to find me?
Answer (politically incorrect, and honest): If I found him attractive initially, I'd be delighted. Then it's about getting to know him.
If I did not find him attractive initially, I'd appreciate the romantic gesture, and want him and the attention to all go away.
I guess the key is: get off your phone, don't use that as an excuse not to chat, and go speak with them to see if the attraction is mutual.
It was lazy (& inconsistent with the feelings he said he had) that he wasn't prepared to end a call to meet with the woman he felt 'love at first sight' for.
Look I get it, your his friend and he's a 'nice bloke' who 'means well'. No harm that we know of this time around but he could have ruined her life. I know someone who avoids social media and all photos like the plague because they've fled an abusive relationship and they want to keep themself and their kids safe. If someone put a picture of her up on social media and it went viral the consequences would be devastating. They would have to pack up and start all over again for the 2nd time in their life all because of another thoughtless person.