From this month, the NSW Registry of Births Deaths and Marriages will provide an optional “recognition of loss” certificate for women who miscarry before 20 weeks.
Unlike stillbirths (pregancies lost after five months), miscarriages have never been recognised formally by the government. This is despite the fact that one in four pregnancies in NSW end in miscarriage.
The NSW Attorney General Brad Hazzard told the SMH that he hopes the move will help grieving parents, at least in some small way.
“Families who experience the loss of a baby early in pregnancy have a difficult grieving process and often feel that their loss isn’t recognised,” he said
The certificate will not be a legal document, but rather a recognition of a loss felt by the family.
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Pro-choice campaigners are comfortable with the change as it acknowledges a family’s grief without threatening broader reproductive rights.
Co-president of Reproductive Choice Australia, Jenny Ejlak told the SMH: “It sounds like a good idea without putting any risks in place that could criminalise any behaviour by pregnant woman.”
The certificate is available through the NSW Births Deaths and Marriages website and parents can choose whether to include a name on the certificate or simply to choose to write “baby of” the parents’ names.
You can apply for a certificate if your loss occurred before 20 weeks, or if weeks are unknown, your baby weighed less than 400g. It only applies to losses in NSW.
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Application is through the website where you fill out the form, print it out, take it to your health professional to sign and then lodge it online, by post or in person with Births Deaths and Marriages. The certificate is free of charge.
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As I was scrolling through the Mamamia website this article immediately caught my attention as I had a miscarriage in October. Nothing could have prepared me for the grief and sadness I felt at the time and continue to feel. Until it happened to me I did not appreciate the devastation associated with miscarriage and the painful awkwardness and silence associated with this issue. My sister and I were pregnant and due within two weeks of each other and as I watch my beautiful sisters tummy grow it is hard not to think about what might have been for us. I think about our angel baby everyday. I hope that he/she is watching over my little niece. This is an important step forward from the NSW Government and I am grateful that such a step has been taken.
There a few words to express how much this article, and it's recognition of ALL babies, means me and to mothers who have also suffered the death of a baby during pregnancy. I have more Angel Babies than living children and all of them are desperately missed each day. I will never forget the due date for my son Sam who was born sleeping and my other forever loved Angels - the dream and the plans and the memories start from the day you know that you have a life growing within you. Thank you thank you thank you NSW Government - you are leading change that will help break the silence on this painful issue and also raise a light to the memories of our children's brief lives. #ProudToBeAustralian