An unidentified baby girl whose body was found at a Sydney beach last year has been laid to rest at a special funeral.
The remains of the newborn were found by two children digging in the sand dunes at South Maroubra Beach in the city’s east last November.
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Police have been unable to track down the baby’s mother, but local woman Filomena D’Alessandro “unofficially adopted” the baby with her husband Bill Green in order to give her a proper funeral and burial.
The baby, named Lily Grace by Ms D’Alessandro, was buried at a new site dedicated to children whose identity is unknown.
More than 100 people attended the service at the South Chapel at the Eastern Suburbs Memorial Park, at Matraville, for the ceremony.
“Her entry to the world was so terrible. If she can have a graceful exit, then we’ll make that happen,” Ms D’Alessandro said before the event.
“It was a legal requirement [to name her],” Ms D’Alessandro said.
“So we chose Lily for being a water flower – a pretty, simple water flower. And she was found on the beach so it was fitting. And we chose Grace because hopefully she’ll have a graceful exit.
“It had to be done, [I’ve] been a mum, couldn’t overlook it and I think everyone felt the same. As a community we had to step forward and take responsibility for this little baby.
“She had such a miserable, short entry to the world – we don’t know exactly what happened – and we just thought she was going to end up with a pauper’s funeral and that was just not right for a small child.”
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It is sad without family, but really nice the turn out.
I used to work as a Funeral Attendant and one of the saddest services I assisted with was for an old fellow that was a veteran that had become mentally ill in later life and had become estranged from his friends and family such that no-one knew him enough to attend his funeral when he passed. In attendance as he was laid to rest was myself, the Funeral Director, the Civil Celebrant and two cemetery workers that we asked to help lower his coffin. I have never felt loneliness for someone else such as I did that day and this poor little one brings back those feelings.
What a beautiful women you are Fhilomena to organise such a kind and compassionate thing. May this beautiful soul that tried to enter the world return one day. Like a lot of mothers my heart broke when i heard the news simply tragic