New effective contraception for men will be available soon! So says this New York Times article from 30 years ago.
Every six months or so, we hear a new report about the imminent release of a male contraceptive pill (like this one from last week). And yet, year after year, the weight of contraceptive options is still borne by women.
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Pills, implants, injectables, rings, caps – The Economist has described the contraceptive options available to women as a “trip through Willy Wonka’s Factory”. From my perspective, a trip through Willy Wonka’s factory is a better description of what I eat while I’m hormonal, but the comparison is well made. When it comes to temporary and permanent contraception, women are relatively well-versed in the variety of options that are available.
So, how can men come to the party on contraception?
Er…the list of options is not long. In fact, after condoms, there is only one other reliable option for men: vasectomy. Like tube ligation for women, it’s a permanent form of contraception. But unlike the major surgery involved in tube ligation, a vasectomy is a minor procedure using local anaesthetic that takes about half an hour – and you can drive yourself home afterwards (probably not on a pushbike, though).
“Let’s talk about vasectomy…” Sounds like a conversation killer for couples, right? Not necessarily. Recent consumer research* shows that men are not as likely as you’d expect to shy away from talking about it.
In fact, the majority of men who have had a vasectomy have said that they were the ones who raised the idea with their partners – and predominately it is the men who do the research on the procedure.
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As someone who has had it done I would recommend it if you and the wife/girlfriend are done with kids. It's a bit of discomfort - the op itself is fine, the worst bit is the needles into the tackle and because it's a local you can feel your nads being modified in that you can sense movement but no pain as such, an ache for 24 hours, off the bike for two weeks (and other riding suspended for about the same period) and then some weeks later take a little jar off to the clinic to check no swimmers and then no more condoms, no pill, it's great. And I agree with those who say if it's a choice between tubal ligation and vasectomy, there's no comparison, one is a major op and the other day surgery so man up and get it done.
Any bloke who refuses to have a vasectomy, which is a simple procedure under local anaesthetic, in favour of his partner having a tubal ligation, which is quite invasive abdominal surgery, is a selfish tosser.