By South Asia correspondent James Bennett
The husband of an Australian woman who died on Mount Everest last week says he cannot yet contemplate living without his wife.
Dr Maria Strydom died on Saturday after falling ill near the mountain’s peak.
Robert Gropel, himself suffering altitude sickness, tried desperately to help his stricken wife, whom he described as “the perfect person”.
He is now recuperating in Kathmandu, while rescue teams continue their efforts to carry his wife’s body down the world’s highest mountain.
Mr Gropel says he is still coming to terms with his life’s dream becoming a nightmare.
“I’m just trying to be strong, I’m learning to cope and block out what causes sort of, breakdowns and trying to get the job done of bringing my wife home,” he said.
The 36-year-old Melbourne vet and his wife, 34-year-old Monash University senior lecturer Dr Strydom, had been together since 2003.
Over the past 12 months, they trained tirelessly together in pursuit of mountaineering’s ultimate prize — the highest peak on every continent.
“We were planning on finishing the seven summits, as vegans, to prove a point and of course Everest is a summit in the seven summits,” Mr Gropel said.
Mr Gropel has vowed to not leave Nepal without his wife’s body.
Family and friends are currently working to scrape together the $35,000 that will cost.
Mr Gropel said he could not yet contemplate what lay ahead.
“I can’t think about that, all I’m thinking is I want to get her home,” he said.
“She was my motivation idol, my hero, she was a very strong advocate for women, she was the perfect person.”
‘She was without oxygen for 20 hours’
With clear weather, the pair began their Everest summit bid on Friday night, departing from the mountain’s Camp Four.
But at the South Summit, at nearly 8,000 metres, Dr Strydom slowed, stricken by altitude sickness.
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There are so many bodies left on everest because of the monumental effort to get bodies down. If Sherpa's or well meaning mountaineers die as a result of trying to get her body off the mountain, it will be a bigger tragedy than her death.
She also should have discussed with her husband, her wish for her body should she die. Death on everest is a reality for a huge amount of climbers, that never make their way home.
"Mr Gropel says he is still coming to terms with his life’s dream becoming a nightmare." Sounds like they didn't plan for anything like this ever happening.
Exactly.
I realise he is feeling grief and pain so I can grant him some leeway here, the fact remains though, trying to recover her body puts more lives at risk.
Climbing Everest if you haven't made a plan for the worst then you are an idiot. I am curious whether they were planning to summit with or supplemental oxygen?
*with or without supplemental oxygen.
I really feel for the family that have lost a loved one, but I do worry about others putting their lives at risk to bring her body down.