By SHAUNA ANDERSON
It started with a pretty snarky Facebook inquiry “Are you child friendly? Because it doesn’t seem like it?”
Like many Facebook conversations it escalated.
But this one ended up in a frenzy of media right around the world.
The controversy was a post by a café in Newcastle, NSW criticizing parents who let their noisy children run wild in cafes.
The owner of this particular café, Little French Cafe posted this announcement on their Facebook page in response on Monday.
“Are we child friendly? If you are looking for a cafe with a children’s menu, baby chinos, a play area, lounges for your children to jump on, vast space for your prams, an area for your children to run rampant, and annoy other customers, while you are oblivious to them — then the short answer is No, we are not child friendly. HOWEVER, if you would like to bring your children here and they are happy to sit at a table with you, while you enjoy a coffee, and are well behaved, please come in. Otherwise, there are plenty of places that are specifically designed to entertain your children.”
The Newcastle Herald picked up the story – saying that many parents had been offended feeling attacked.
The owner of Little French Café Jodie Morris’s post soon went viral – racking up hundreds of comments on social media right throughout the world.
The Independent in the UK wrote that many parents said attitudes such as these left them feeling alienated.
Top Comments
I hear the position of the owner. Indie bars in Brunswick St Fitzroy reject suits because they change the values of the place that the owners have defined and why people frequent there.
Myself with 2 young ones, I dont take them to the TAB or a noisy kids bar or hipster cafe. I choose places like Jimmi Jamz or other more relaxed venues that pitch themselves as somewhere suitable to the girls and I. There are a lot of options out there.
Previously running a company, I rejected clients that were not good for my business. I think it's covered in our rights law somehow :-)
I agree totally with the café owner. It's his café, and he has the right to turn away business if he wants to or thinks it would be detrimental to the enjoyment of other patrons ... just as Bars and Pubs turn away guests who are likely to be disruptive - that's OK. So why is it not OK to turn away a mum with a huge pram and an unruly child or two?
Sorry, but I'm over mums complete disinterest in their child's behaviour.
There is a place for Mums and children where Mums can get a coffee - it's called McDonalds and has been specifically designed for kids in mind - it even has a playground for kids ... so please go there and leave us in peace.