Model and actress Lily Cole has opened up about the home birth of her daughter in London last year.
Cole, 28, mum to nine-month-old Wylde, says she was aiming for a home birth but had an open mind about going to hospital. In the end, she got both.
“I am so glad my daughter’s first experience of life – of that transition from womb to world – was a positive and gentle one,” she says in the foreword to The Homebirth Handbook, which was written by her midwife, Annie Francis.
“It was 4am and the world was quiet outside. There were no drugs in her system. I think the experience we had together in those first moments has shaped the months that have followed, and potentially informed our daughter’s calm and fearless spirit,” Cole said.
After Cole gave birth with her partner Kwame Ferreira by her side, she had a complication with her placenta and the midwife called an ambulance. She spent the next two days in hospital.
“Although I had to transfer to hospital after the birth, a home birth meant I got to bring my little girl into the world in an intimate, private, sacred way. And I got to witness what my body is capable of,” she said.
According to recent figures from the UK, only 2.4 per cent of women give birth at home, and 11 per cent in midwife-led units. The rest give birth in hospital obstetrics units. Francis, who has been a midwife for 18 years, says there is “a great deal of fear” attached to birth.
“We risk-manage it and look at all the things that could go wrong,” she told The Telegraph. “We forget that most of the time things go right.”
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I hate these stories that talk home births and drug free labour up to be something special. Birth is not some magical mystical experience, it's a natural part of life. It's amazing, sure, because nature is amazing, but just like the rest of nature, it will kill you if it gets the chance.
The only important things are that bub is delivered safe and sound, and that mum survives the process.
And if mum survives the process but comes out of the experience with post natal depression, or worse, PTSD? You're cool with that? As long as she survives?
Of course not Zepgirl, that's not what I meant.
I mean that the birth experience is less important than the result. Many women get so hung up on their birth plans and having it all happen a particular way that they forget that it's actually about delivering a healthy baby.
I 100% think it's selfish to home birth. More so now since my third was born recently, he was perfectly fine, I however was not - my entire placenta was retained (the cord and membranes came out but that was it) & by the time they rushed me into surgery, I had already lost 2.5litres of blood. Had I been home I would not be here right now. Now this was nothing that could have been prevented, was nothing indicating it would happen until it did - previous two labours were completly complication free. My three Children would be without their mother, my husband without his wife all because I wanted to 'be more comfortable' at home? Ridiculous.