Kylie Jenner may or may not be pregnant, and there’s a reason that news might be upsetting for women in their 30s.
It’s called the ‘Fertility Industrial Complex’, and it’s a thing that’s affecting some of Girls creator, Lena Dunham’s friends.
“A solid 10 friends texted me triggered by Kylie pregnancy. I’m like ‘ladies she’s 20. We were all v fertile then, we were just broke.’,” the 31-year-old posted on Twitter.
“You know the fertility industrial complex has pushed us too far when we’re trying to stay neck in neck w/ reality stars who can’t drink yet.”
A solid 10 friends texted me triggered by Kylie pregnancy. I’m like “ladies she’s 20. We were all v fertile then, we were just broke.”
— Lena Dunham (@lenadunham) September 23, 2017
We should note her use of the term ‘triggered’ is likely not meant to be taken 100 per cent literally, but it’s almost an appropriate word for the way women who are struggling with their fertility feel when they hear that any celebrity – or friend, or sister, or colleague – is pregnant when they are not.
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I struggled with infertility for 2 years and am now about to pop with a baby conceived via IUI. I used to really begrudge other women when they got pregnant, especially with their 2nd or more baby, and it was actually a comment on a post on this very website that changed my thinking. Someone said to me that their fertility has no bearing on mine, so how could I possibly hold it against them? I can't remember who it was, but I hope they're reading this so they know how much they opened my eyes and my heart to how selfish my attitude was at times.
Lovely news Keyla! Good luck!
Thank you :)
It seems that some people struggling with fertility genuinely can't feel happy when someone else gets what they want - it's like they think there is a finite number of babies and every time someone else has one it decreases their own chances. And that's pretty sad, really, and suggests they need a lot more support.