In the wake of the preventable death of another baby, allegedly turned away from two hospitals and his symptoms dismissed as ‘teething’ – there is a growing campaign to make national a Queensland-only protocol that forces medical staff to pay attention to a mother’s intuition.
For any parent who has been faced with the horror of knowing something is wrong and no one listening it’s a campaign that makes sense.
Malakai Matui Paraone and Kyran Day both died in hospital after concerns from their parents were ignored. Image via Facebook.
Last week a mother and father lost their little boy. A big brother lost his mate. The family from Perth made the decision none of us want to be faced with, to turn off the life support of their son.
Their baby boy, Malakai Matui Paraone, just seven-months, died in Princess Margaret Hospital after allegedly being sent home from two hospitals and a GP, told to go home - dismissed - labelled as "teething".
But he wasn't teething, he was desperately ill and no one except his parents believed it.
His death, according to his parents Nicole Thompson and her partner, Keps Paraone was from misdiagnosed meningococcal.
“Three days I tried to get him help — three days, two hospitals, one doctor’s surgery, an ambulance trip,” Ms Thompson told Nine News.
“If they had done their job properly my son would still be here.”
Nicole Thompson and her partner, Keps Paraone with Malakai and their other son. Via Facebook.
While the clinical diagnosis for her son’s death will be determined by a coroners court the family say they blame the hospitals and doctors involved claiming they were "laughed at" and "dismissed" for asking questions.
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Truth be told, this is not just a problem with babies and small children, it is also a problem with women. I can't begin to list all the times I knew something was wrong with me and couldn't get a doc to take me seriously. I'm willing to bet that this is less of a problem for men. It's part of a cultural myth that portrays women as too "emotional" which, in the macho mindset, translates to "irrational". It carries over to women's intuition about their children's health. There is absolutely no reason that we can't afford enough docs and nurses to check out anybody's strong intuition about a health issue. We can afford the mistaken diagnoses and the hypochondriacs, if it means saving lives. Can we finally get away from this notion that medical treatment has to be determined by cost? I'm not talking about the attempts to keep old people alive on machines, I'm talking about taking seriously how people FEEL. It matters.
Love to see the stats on the times when parents intuition was wrong. Being a parent doesn't make you a doctor. However, being a doctor doesn't mean you can't be wrong.
Surely it being wrong and being investigated is better than a child dying. As a medical professional (not doctor or nurse) I would prefer to be sure than to have the guilt of a child's death to deal with.
Absolutely. We just need to hire dozens upon dozens of doctors and nurses to deal with it.
They have to make quick decisions, especially when worried parents bring children to the ER. Imagine what the wait times would be if every parents intuition was investigated for hours. Many more cases would be opened for negligence because people aren't being seen fast enough, and more people die because of it.