Nathan Verhelst died on Monday.
The physically healthy 44-year-old was injected with a lethal substance by Dr Wim Distekmans on the grounds that he no longer wished to live due to “unbearable psychological suffering”.
Nathan used to be Nancy.
Nancy was born as the only girl child of parents, who showed a clear preference for boys. When explaining his choice to end his life via euthanasia, despite not suffering from a terminal illness, Nathan said of his childhood:
“I was the girl that nobody wanted… While my brothers were celebrated, I got a storage room above the garage as a bedroom. ‘If only you had been a boy’, my mother complained. I was tolerated, nothing more.”
In 2009, aged 40, Nathan began undergoing the hormone therapy required to become a man. This therapy was followed by surgery to construct a penis and remove his breasts in 2012.
Unfortunately though, the surgery was botched and the outcome was far from what Nathan had desired. He told a local Belgium newspaper:
“I was ready to celebrate my new birth… But when I looked in the mirror, I was disgusted with myself. My new breasts did not match my expectations and my new penis had symptoms of rejection. I do not want to be… a monster. “
Euthanasia, where carried out by a doctor at the request of a patient is legal in three European countries, Luxembourg, the Netherlands and Beligum. So the procedure that Dr Wim Distekmans carried out was perfectly legal, even though there was no immediate threats to Nathan’s physical health.
Dr Distekmans agreed to conduct the procedure on the basis of what he believed was ‘incurable, unbearable suffering’. He explained in the UK’s Telegraph:
“The choice of Nathan Verhelst has nothing to do with fatigue of life… There are other factors that meant he was in a situation with incurable, unbearable suffering.”
“Unbearable suffering for euthanasia can be both physical and psychological. This was a case that clearly met the conditions demanded by the law. Nathan underwent counseling for six months.”
Dr Distekmans is no stranger to the stark spotlight of the media. Earlier this year he agreed to euthanaise two adult Belgian twins, aged 45, who were born deaf and did not want to continue living after learning that they would soon go blind.
After a local hospital refused to carry out the mercy killing at the request of Marc and Eddy Verbessem, Dr Distekmans stepped in.
Dr Distekmans was forced to defend his decision to legally end the lives of the Verbessem brothers. He said at the time that:
“It’s the first time in the world that a ‘double euthanasia’ has been performed on brothers,” he said. “There was certainly unbearable psychological suffering for them. Though there is of course it always possible to stretch the interpretation of that. One doctor will evaluate differently than the other.”
Euthanasia remains an incredibly contentious issue globally, with only seven jurisdictions permitting its legal practice. Here in Australia, euthanasia was briefly legal in the Northern Territory back in 1996 before the law was overturned by the Federal Government.
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Let's realistically rephrase the title : it was not euthanasia, but pure suicide. Now this has become deviant, and quite fast : where euthanasia has become a new tactic for suicide (just pay some medical accomplices and they'll kill you for you)... IMHO It's too easy, I'd even say a coward medical act supporting suicide instead trying to heal some "unbearable lightness of being"...
But in this specific case it's quite understandable... I think that these individuals should be ADEQUATELY treated by professional and real doctors. Beginning with psychiatric follow-up, instead of dealing with crooks having trashed the Hippocratic oath and trying to sell them a "new life" (because they're in for the money, not to cure but to enforce psychological distress so that they can sell their very lucrative "gender changing surgery"), while their technique is so flawed and IRREVERSIBLE - Which is why he suicided himself btw, because of false promises replacing adequate psychological treatment, because of medical usurpation...
I suffered from depression for 2 years - for 6 months of that time I thought of suicide every day. The only reason I didn't go through with it is because I couldn't bear to put that suffering on my parents. If they had already been dead, I would have killed myself. This was in my late 20s. I went on to recover and 20 years later am a wife and mother, have not suffered a relapse and am grateful for my life and that I didn't end it so soon. Euthanasia is final. Depression can be alleviated. I am not in favour of euthanasia. My dear friend died of cancer and spent a lot of the time in the preceding year in denial and pain. It was only in the last few weeks and days of her life that she reached a state of acceptance and grace and she had a wonderful death (if there is such a thing!) which was a gift to us all. I still miss her every day, but I think she may have missed the insights and peace she found if she had been euthanized earlier.