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How we've realised that our toddlers are growing up.

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One of the most fascinating things of parenting is watching your children learn and develop. From the moment they are placed in your arms their little minds are absorbing knowledge and information from the world around them. They’re always watching, always listening (even when you wish they weren’t!) and all the time, their minds are expanding. There’s no ‘off’ switch when it comes to toddler’s learning. From the minute they wake in the (very) early morning their brains are little sponges; soaking up whatever their environment has to offer.

Sometimes in the thick of parenting it can be easy to be surprised by your child learning a new skill and it’s those moments that make you stop and be amazed by your little person all over again.

As a mum of three small people, I think I’ve lost count of the amount of times my children have surprised me with their learning. I’ll be going about my day, folding washing, tidying the kitchen or whatever it is that needs to be done and I’ll look over and see my baby, standing of their own or stacking blocks together in a way I’ve never seen them do before. Developing so rapidly, right before my eyes.

My daughter has just turned one. Naturally, her first word was Da-Da, closely followed by Jett (my oldest son’s name). There I was patiently waiting for Mama to come out of her tiny mouth for weeks. Nothing, nada, none. I prompted her more times than I would like to admit to but still, every Mama was met with a Dada in response and a giggle or a cheeky look.

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"Her first word was Da-Da." Image: iStock.

And then I realised, her learning was actually far more advanced than I realised because while I was waiting for a simple Mama, she had created a whole game around me wanting her to say it. She knew that I wanted her to say Mama, but she also knew that I got a lot more animated in prompting her the more she responded with a cheeky grin.

To her it was a cute little game. I could see the cheeky smile, I could see it in her eyes. She knew what she was doing and my heart melted because as much as I wanted to hear it, she has shown me that she had her own little personality which already, at the age of one, had an awesome sense of humour attached to it. While I was waiting for a development in speech what I got was a surprise development in social skills.

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I’ve always loved watching the relationship between my children grow. As their mother you love these small people more than anything in the world and there is nothing that can melt your heart like seeing love develop between them.

When my girl was about six-months-old she was sitting on the back steps of our yard with my two boys. The boys had a plate of watermelon which they were sharing. I watched from the kitchen window, smiling as they giggled. And then I saw this six month old baby watch her brothers eat this watermelon. Despite not having any food before, she reached over and picked up a piece, just as they did using motor skills that she didn’t have before.

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Watermelon is still one of her favourite snacks. Image: iStock.

Her fingers pinched the piece of fruit in a more deliberate fashion and she was so proud of herself. She shoved her fist into her mouth, all the time her eyes fixated on her brother to make sure she was ‘doing it right’. I stood there and watched, aware that she had just learnt how to feed herself, accidental baby led weaning style, under the watchful eyes of her big brothers.

My friend, who is about to have her first baby, asked me recently what the best thing about parenting is. My response was that I loved watching them grow and learn. From the first time I saw them I have continually been in awe of what these mini people can do, using each day as an opportunity to develop and every day showing me new ways in which they have perfected their skills.

What were some of the key milestones in your toddler's life?