by LUCY KIPPIST
I have a big problem with the phrase ‘dream birth’, it’s disingenuous.
Too many people I know have been lured by the false security of having something written down on paper only to feel terrible when things don’t go to plan.
Not only does it set up a damaging set of expectations about what a woman ‘should’ be doing and feeling about giving birth, it can distort her memory of the birth experience and her self-esteem later on. And that is not OK.
Stress is the least favourable ingredient in a pregnancy, which is one of the reasons why going out of your way to ‘plan’ something that’s essentially unknown is damaging. Even before baby is born.
Case in point: Jennifer Goodall, a 41 week pregnant Florida mother of three, who is currently engaged in a high voltage tit for tat with her doctors. Their point of contention: VBAC. Otherwise known as, vaginal birth after C-section.
Given Ms Goodall’s last three pregnancies resulted in C-section, her doctors have strongly advised against vaginal birth – even threatening to report Ms Goodall to child welfare if she attempts it. Their reasons are myriad but chief among them appears to be VBAC risk of uterine rupture.
So just how high is this risk? Here’s what Dr Brad Robinson of Brisbane’s Greenslopes Obstetrics and Gynaecology told us.
Top Comments
My baby would not be with us if I had this attitude. Enough said.
You have the right to a second, third, fourth opinion. However, if all of your medical experts agree on the same conclusion, perhaps you should listen to them.. afterall, they do deal with this day in/day out.