You’d be excused for thinking you were about to read yet another tale of a mum shamed for breastfeeding in public but no, this story is very different. And guaranteed to restore your faith in strangers.
Briar Lusia Mcqueen says that she was in Gusto cafe at Mount Maunganui in New Zealand last week with her eight week old son, Jaxon.
As babies of that age tend to do, he got fussy for a feed. Naturally it was just as her meal arrived but babies tend not to care for these moments in life.
Briar began feeding her son when she noticed and older lady approaching her table.
She told Mamamia that she was nervous because as a first time mother she thought the women was going to tell her off for nursing in public (and it’s no wonder after all the stories we have heard about this kind of prehistoric behaviour).
But instead, Briar says she was left speechless and touched when the lady took the knife and fork in her hands and began cutting up the meal, so that she could eat it one handed while she nursed Jaxon.
As she did so she said, “what a good mama you are, we can’t have your food getting cold can we?”
Briar says the the kind actions of a stranger left her shocked and surprised. “I started to well up and couldn’t thank her enough”, she told Mamamia.
“I was so surprised and in complete awe of her I forgot to ask her name I just thanked her over and over again, she just walked off like it was nothing.”
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What a beautiful woman - I hope she learns from someone how wonderful everyone thinks she is :)
What a wonderful story!
My daughter was born with bilateral hip dysplasia. When she was nine days old, I ventured out alone for the first time. To the hospital for an ultrasound.
As is often the case, they were running behind. My daughter, Penny, was starting to cry on the waiting room. At that moment, we finally got her scan done.
As soon as we were out, I headed to the coffee shop where I got a coffee and snack for me and fed Penny for the very first time in public. An elderly man from the waiting room walked over and I thought "here we go...". He stopped, gently stroked Penny's downy head and said "she was just hungry. Good job". And walked off.
It set the tone for my breast feeding for that moment on. I was never concerned.
How lovely xxx