What happens when a homeschooling mum and a teacher go head-to-head on a radio show? Well, things get a little intense.
Lindy Hadges, a mum who has homeschooled all five of her kids, was invited onto Kyle and Jackie O’s radio show yesterday morning.
Things started out calmly enough, with Hadges explaining why she chose to homeschool and how she thought it helped her children.
“It’s just giving them time to develop, reflect, daydream, actually work out who they are,” she explained. “I find most homeschooled kids are more mature than peers their age and generally their identity is stronger. They know what they like, they know what they don’t like, and I see that as a really good thing.”
But the tone changed when listeners began calling in. One was Anna, who said she’d been a teacher for 10 years.
“She is doing a disservice to her children,” Anna said firmly. “She’s doing what so many parents are doing nowadays, which is indulging their own selfishness and what they want for their own children rather than what’s best for their children.”
When Hadges tried to explain that if she was indulging her own selfishness it would be easier for her to send her kids off to school, Anna cut in.
"No, no, no, I’m not talking about that selfishness. What I’m talking about is that wanting to be their friend and keep them happy and loving and, 'Oh, no one’s ever going to hurt you, my darling.' But the reality is the world is not like that."
She went on. "They’re not going to go into their boss and say, 'Oh, look, I don’t feel like doing this today,' and their boss isn’t going to say, 'Oh, darling, that’s okay, let’s go and colour in in the lounge room.'"
But Hadges explained that she said no to her kids every day.