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There are calls for bikinis to be banned because some men are feeling 'uncomfortable'.

A Gold Coast man has ignited a national debate over a controversial call to ban G-string bikinis on Australian beaches, with people branding his comments "shocking" and "sexist".

Ian Grace, the founder of a youth charity, has called for Gold Coast Mayor Tom Tate to put a stop to women wearing revealing swimwear in a letter published by the Gold Coast Bulletin.

The 2022 Gold Coast Volunteer of the Year said the bikini trend made him feel "uncomfortable", claiming that women are "sending the wrong message".

Watch: We tried... *those* bikini bottoms and it went almost exactly as you'd expect. Post continues below.

"At a local event where our musicians were playing, one young lady in particular was walking on the footpath on the main road and had the tiniest triangle in front and was as close to naked as anyone could be," Grace wrote.

"You could see she was looking almost defiantly at people as they approached, almost daring them to say something. There’s something very wrong here.

"While any man would enjoy 'the view', I believe women are very much demeaning and cheapening themselves, portraying themselves as sex objects, then decrying it when men see them that way.

"Bare bums can be seen to be every bit as erotic if not more so, than women’s bare breasts – so would it not make sense they are banned identically? If not banned at the beach, very definitely banned the moment they are off the beach.

"This certainly should not be allowed in public pools or theme/water parks which are very much more family orientated. Young kids don’t need to see women’s bums."

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Grace also stated that women in "skin tight" activewear and "crevice filler outfits" made him feel equally  "uncomfortable".

"Innocently I admired a shapely bare bum on the beach, and was taken aback and felt uncomfortable when that same young lady was later serving me coffee," he wrote. "I almost felt like I had inadvertently violated her privacy."

"It also goes far from the beach and bikinis, when you look at the 'crevice filler' outfits women wear, whether exercising or just out and about. When walking behind women with these skin-tight outfits, you can see every single movement of each buttock – a pleasant view, but is this not the wrong message?"

Grace backed up his comments on a recent episode of The Project, with hosts Sarah Harris and Steve Price clashing in disagreement over the controversial call.

Harris said she was "lost for words" after speaking with Grace, saying: "It's a fine line isn't it Ian, shouldn't we be teaching our girls to be proud of our bodies and not be ashamed of it?"

Price added: "You tend to say in the letter that you feel uncomfortable when you see this. I tend to agree with that. Particularly when you are getting down to the younger ages."

Touching on Grace's additional commentary around women wearing activewear and revealing blouses at meetings, Price said: "It sounds like you're saying that you don't respect women if you can see too much skin in business meetings, is that what you're saying?"

Grace said: "All I'm saying is that women wear skin-tight clothing, men don't."

According to The Project, Mayor Tate has responded to the ban on G-strings, rejecting the notion of restricting women's fashion choices.

"Ian is a brave man messing with women’s fashion," he said. "One thing I’ve learnt about fashion over the years is that if you try to ban something, or restrict it, that’s a certain recipe to see it double in popularity."

On a Facebook post, one woman wrote: "I don’t agree with “banning” what people choose to wear. We are over regulated as it is. BUT, a little modesty and decorum isn’t a bad thing in a public space."

"When will people have a choice about what they do in their everyday life? Absolutely disgusting," wrote someone else.

What are your thoughts on the call to ban G-string bikinis? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.

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sarah 9 months ago
When I see teenage girls wearing bras or bikinis, I don't know where to look. I don't want to look at a teenage girl's chest, but the eye is drawn towards it. 

d123 9 months ago
Well we have nudity laws so I would imagine a lot of people would be offended if everyone went around naked. So, the question is what’s nude to you? If someone was completely bare bummed many people would say that’s nudity, so, that little patch is not far off it. Speaking of patches presumably most women wearing g-strings have waxed, but, if not, would we all be ok if that woman wearing her g was ala natural bush poking out like a forest?

On the other hand some people might think nudity is showing an ankle. So, it’s all subjective. 

Other people would say this man’s a prude and the g-string is ok for the beach, but, not for the office. But, if so why not? Because, if you’re ok with that little patch then you should also be ok with some checkout chick serving your kids while wearing that g-string, or the guy at the servo suited out in a g-string ala Borat. 

I’m not sure what side of the debate I’m on, I’m just pointing out that we are all hypocritical and full of double standards on this, except for those who think full nudity is acceptable in all circumstances. 

As far as women trying to be sexy, well, if a woman throws on some random reasonably priced clothing that is comfortable but just  happens to be revealing I would say she is doing it for convenience. But, if someone is going out of their way to purchase these things when the more practical alternative would be to be covered up to avoid sunburn then I would say she is probably trying to look attractive or sexy. That’s her decision to do so, I’m not saying that’s bad, but, don’t then deny that’s not the purpose of such an outfit. 

Regardless of the sexiness of the outfit I do believe men can and should control their actions. But, it’s also unrealistic of women to expect a man not to be aroused if they look sexy. Similarly if a man looks sexy some heterosexual women are going to be hot and bothered looking at him too. The key is someone shouldn’t be acting on these feelings,  unless invited to do so. But, I can see how it might make some men uncomfortable if a woman is wearing such a tiny g-string. Similarly some women would feel uncomfortable if a guy was on the beach wearing the Borat mankini with his full 8 inches barely covered. I actually think someone should do an experiment and get lots of guys to wear these kind of things to see what the reaction would be.