I free bled once (for one menstrual cycle) – and honestly, I hope I never have to do it again.
For those who haven’t heard of it before, ‘free bleeding’ is when a person experiences their period without the use of any menstrual flow/blood ‘blockers’ (like pads or tampons, as an example).
I just want to preface all this by saying that I do fully appreciate that I’m in a privileged position whereby I have access to adequate menstrual hygiene care and that I also have the freedom to choose whether or not to free bleed, as I did this month. Of course, many are not afforded this choice due to their circumstances (whether they be people at risk, or living on the streets, or those who simply cannot afford fem-care products, to those who are impacted by cultural issues that prevents them from having access).
This is what your period would look like if it was a person. What a d*ck. Post continues after video.
This post and experience is not intended to offend or criticise anyone else’s circumstances or choices – it stemmed from a genuine interest and desire to better understand what it might be like for people who free-bleed, whether it be by choice or not and to then share that experience with others who have been wondering about it, too! I’m a firm believer that education and experience sharing empowers us – it allows us to be more empathetic and generally just better humans!
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To start with - I hate that word "sanitary" because it implies something unclean and horrible, especially to men & boys.
Too many of them are already ignorant enough about the realities of experiencing a period and like to use it as yet another reason to demonize women.
However, this "exercise" is admirable in essence but I think - unnecessary in our society in 2019.
Apart from social upheaval - most of us aren't likely to experience this for real - but we can do enough research to help us understand the plight of thousands of other women every day.
I've shared a story a couple of times now on Facebook about a lovely man in India who noticed the distress & inconvenience experienced by his wife and other women in his village during their periods.
They didn't have access to pads that they could afford.
This man set about creating some - and it's been a great success and has liberated those women from the shame of dealing with this process in a religious community with little empathy for women.
Supporting these ventures and others that provide free products to the homeless is a start.
I Can imagine your washing loads! You should have thrown a no washing machine week into your experiment as well, to highlight the plea of the women who have no access to hygene products and washing machines as you do. That would have been a very freeing experience for you, freeing from a stupid experiments as this one.