Thinking of getting your child into sport? You’ve got a lot of options. So many that at times it can feel really overwhelming, right? The choices these days are so plentiful that it’s hard to work out what’s the right one for your kids.
I have two boys aged 9 and 7, and when it comes to sport they couldn’t be more different. One of them is never seen without a ball in his hand, near his foot, in the air somewhere surrounding him.
The other – well, he’s a little more reluctant.
When he started school I decided it was time to get him involved in a sport. I enrolled him in the same sport most of the other kids around us were doing and thought things were simple. Box ticked. How wrong I was.
Week after week I’d force him to go to training and the games, resisting the moans and groans, ignoring the pleas to “just have a week off”, reminding him he had committed to a team and he had to honour that commitment. Telling him he’d be letting the other kids down. That they relied on him.
Week after week he stood on that field pulling at the grass, watching the clouds, doing anything EVERYTHING but joining in.
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How about give them options and let them choose what they want. Me, I rode ponies and pushbikes and swam. Because I was no good at ball sports.
My tip would be choosing a coach or teacher who will take the time to help them connect to the other kids socially. Just sitting or teaming a child with a same-age or like-minded kid can be the difference in them sticking with an activity. It is ridiculous how infrequently this happens. No one wants to spend 2 hours alone, no matter how much they love the activity.