By DALE SPENDER
It happened again last week. When I mentioned that there is a school in Brisbane where the teenage girls need to be fed when they arrive, all need new bras and knickers, some come with their babies, others have nobody at home looking after them – worst still come from broken, violent homes, a woman said to me: “But that can’t be happening in such a prosperous city.’’
Some people can only deal with the way they want the world to be. I like to deal with ‘’what is’’. And the reality is that there are homeless women in every prosperous capital city in Australia – up against wealth and new apartments and trendy coffee shops, just around the corner, sits poverty. And there is no longer a ‘’norm’’ of what this homelessness looks like.
What’s the modern-day face of female homelessness?
Is it Tanya, a young woman who battled all her 35 years with an intellectual disability and crippling schizophrenia, bouncing from hospital psych units to unsafe boarding houses and relationships, before she finally found a safe home. Is it Janice the Queensland pensioner who had signed over the family home to her son and came home one day to find the locks changed and her belongings on the front lawn? Or Lyn, a middle-aged middle-class mother of three teenage boys, whose husband died and they lost their business and eventually their home? Or is it Bridget, the Brisbane businesswoman, a graphic designer, who fled family violence to an emergency refuge with her children. She managed to continue working keeping her business going because she was desperate not to lose the house. She cared for the children, dealt with the custody dispute as the refuge staff supported her through every step. Today she’s in her home, safe and happy, business still running.
Top Comments
Well done guys. As someone who as been on both sides of this story (working with homeless youth, only to move states and find herself couch surfing repeatedly) I know how important your cause is. Luckily enough, every time I've found myself in that dreadful situation someone has been kind enough to offer me their lounge room floor. I fear the next time when that isn't an option. I've done the psych wards, the supported accommodation (and let me tell you, not all of those are what they are cracked up to be)..but when it comes down to it, sleeping on the side of the road beats living in a home where you fear for your safety. If I had the funds I would offer something to help your cause, but if you need any other support, I'd happily help out :)
The charity I am involved with in SA called Backpacks 4 SA Kids is finding the issues coming from Domestic Violence Shelters and Youth Homeless Shelters is increasing and numbers and statistics are an unknown factor. No one knows how many kids come through the doors of these shelters with their mums or how many of our youth are couch surfing from house to house each day. Its such an incredible number and yet we don't talk about it and it isn't obvious in our society that it is happening. Well done Mia, Dale and Mamamia for being a forum to bring such matters to the surface. Together we can make a difference, every small item can help.
Awareness is half of the battle