A man whose two daughters were raped by a priest has confronted George Pell, telling him “I am a broken man” after the Cardinal’s second day of testimony via video link to the child abuse royal commission.
Cardinal Pell faced the commission from a Rome hotel, drawing gasps from survivors as he declared the crimes of notorious paedophile priest Gerald Ridsdale were a “sad story” but “not of much interest” to him at the time.
Anthony Foster’s daughters Emma and Katie were raped by Melbourne priest Father Kevin O’Donnell when they were in primary school in the 1980s.
Mr Foster confronted Cardinal Pell outside the hearing at the Hotel Quirinale, saying he had given up hope the Cardinal would fix the church’s so-called Melbourne Response to the abuse scandal.
“He held my hand for the whole duration of the chat that we had and I expressed to him that he was holding the hand of a broken man, and he put his other hand on me and tried to I suppose connect in some way, but I didn’t feel it,” Mr Foster said.
“Quest over. It was the smooth Cardinal Pell, not the Cardinal Pell we saw on the stand.”
Emma suffered from eating disorders, drug addiction and self harm and in 2008 she overdosed on medication and died at age 26.
Katie became a binge drinker as she reached adulthood and was hit by a drunk driver in 1999. She was left physically and mentally disabled, requiring 24-hour care.
Mr Foster and his wife Christine, who also have another daughter named Aimee, are now Adults Surviving Child Abuse ambassadors.
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The sexual abuse of children at the hands of religious is appalling. however, let us not forget that most sexual abuse of children occurs within the family home. Stepfathers, mother's boyfriends, grandfathers, uncles, older brothers, cousins etc.
We are judging old men like Pell by today's standards re the understanding of the reality and the damaging nature of childhood sexual abuse. I'm 48 and as a child my now 80 year old mother was informed by me that the man who ran the local milkbar touched me on the bottom when I went into the milkbar. Her response was that I should never go into the milkbar again. On another occasion, she felt my younger brother was of sexual interest to her hairdresser so she never went there again and gave us strict instructions NEVER to go into the salon and to walk on the opposite side of the road if had to go past the salon etc etc, It never occurred to her that she should go the police. She just took steps to protect her own children and left it at that. Now when I remind her of this, she is sheepish but that was the culture of the time.
When my own 80 year old mother was about 8, the next door neighbour touched her inappropriately when visiting her house. He told her not to tell her mother. Immediately after the man left the house, she told her mother and her mother never associated with him again and gave my mother strict instructions to stay away from him. However my grandmother did not go to the police.
Deflection. The CC in Australia it has been estimated that 6 to 12% of all priests over the last 60 years were active sexual abusers. Estimates of pedophilia in the general population is 0.1 to 0.3%.
I don't know about the veracity of your stats. as no sources are quoted. Noone is denying the clergy have committed crimes against children. My point is that churches, whether they were Catholic, Anglican, salvation army, and other religions e.g. jewish have dealt with child sexual abuse poorly. However, churches/religions are part of a community and many years ago the whole community , not just churches preferred to sweep child sexual assault under the carpet for various reasons. e.g. people were reticent to talk about sex in general, there was not a concept of mandatory reporting, people didn't understand the nature of paedophilia, people didn't understand the impact of sexual abuse of children, people didn't understand the recidivist nature of paedophiles. etc
Religion has lots to answer+its little wonder that there are so many disillusioned people in this world! I feel so sad+sorry for the victims+I just know that the church wont take responsibility for this abuse. Religion? No thanks, you can keep ' that business' (for that is what it is' )away from me+mine!