In midwestern USA, a tight-knit family of five is negotiating their new life in a six-metre caravan. It might be small, it might be cramped, but they’re not complaining – they’re doing it all for their little girl.
At just 13 months old, Ruby Pearl has had more than her fair share of hardship. Born deaf, blind and with holes in her heart, the infant also has a deteriorating brain, glaucoma, obstructive sleep apnoea, chronic lung disease and epilepsy.
Ruby Pearl also battled various secondary illnesses and infections, meaning she’s has lived most of her life within the white walls of a hospital.
Ruby Pearl wasn't expected to live more than a few hours. Image: GoFundMe.
"This past May, when she had pneumonia, they had us call in our family to say goodbye to her," her mother Margaret VanTongeren told People. "They showed me the room they use for babies to die in and I just broke down. It's still hard to think about it – it was the worst moment of my life."
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Seriously. Not trolling here. But if they new this in utero.... Why would they make their other children suffer... being evicted and transient because they didn't make the choice to terminate? And if the child somehow lives? And the parents age and die? Whose burden is it then? In my work, I have seen many elderely and ( young mid 50's) care for an adult child with a disability. The toll is devastating... I've seen parents and adult children both entering nursing homes together because there's no other choice.
Agreed.
This is the US we are talking about, quality of life and choices are seldom talked about. even if they had no other kids they would need a gofundme to pay the medical bills. It really is a difficult place to live or try to live.
Perhaps they didn't know the extent of her disabilities - not everything can be predicted before birth. Or perhaps they are just pro-life.