An alarming study has shown young women are pretending to have orgasm as a tool to escape non-consensual sex.
A study undertaken in Canada has revealed that all of the women they interviewed for a study admitted to faking an orgasm to speed up the end of “bad sex”.
The study was published by the British Psychological Society.
Disturbingly, it showed that the women could not quantify exactly what “bad sex” meant, despite many alluding to coercive or unwanted sexual experiences.
“Analysis showed that the women never used terms such as rape and coercion to refer to their own experiences — despite their descriptions of events that could be categorised as such,” says the British Psychological Society.
“Instead, women described their experiences of unwanted sex in indirect ways. For example, women used the term ‘bad’ to describe sex that was both unwanted and unpleasurable.”
The research only involved 15 women, aged 19 -28 -- a small group compared to many of the larger-scale surveys of the BPS -- and yet, interestingly, none of them were there to talk about faking sexual pleasure.
It was an admission made off their own accord, without discussion among themselves.
The young women interviewed described using fake orgasms as a tool to "escape" a situation in which they otherwise had no control.
It was so normal, so common, and so practiced by them that it was offered simply as one of the reasons they might fake an orgasm.
Other answers to the same question included "making a partner feel better", or heightening their own sexual arousal.
The scariest part of this story? Women are still struggling to define 'bad sex'.
Top Comments
I have faked it to just to hurry it along sometimes, didn't think it was that unusual. With a husband and kids sometimes I just have shit to do or my mind is 2 places at once so you know your ever gonna get there so I just put on a little act so he is super turned on and if he believes he made me orgasm he can allow himself to orgasm too.
15 women is a pretty small sample size, and the term 'bad sex' is very vague. Not sure anyone should draw any conclusions from this.