On June 24, 2021, Erin Molan witnessed a moment she'd long waited for.
After months of petitioning to change legislation around online abuse, the bill was officially passed in Federal parliament.
"This new legislation will ensure the laws that exist in real life will now exist online. It will help keep our children safer - and every Australian adult," Molan wrote on social media.
"It will help hold perpetrators to account - remove their anonymity and create genuine real life deterrents. It will force big social media companies to act."
She thanked everyone who had supported her in this fight.
"I took my daughter into Parliament House with me when this bill was introduced last week because I wanted to be able to tell her one day she was there when something really special happened," she wrote.
"When Australia did something important before anywhere else in the world. This will save lives. Thank you."
The impacts of cyber abuse and trolling are far-reaching, and Molan certainly knows that personally.
Watch: Erin Molan on 60 Minutes. Post continues below video.
For more than a decade, she put up with the abuse that came from her job as a rugby league presenter.
She'd just cop it. Even the grossly gendered, misogynistic stuff.
"Every single one was either that I was a woman, that I was ugly, that I looked like a slut, that I'd never played the game, that I belong in the kitchen," Molan told 60 Minutes in December 2020.
"About different footballers that I've had dalliances with, about bosses at Channel Nine that I must have slept with. It's just vile."
Molan said she isn't a "snowflake".
"The other tens of thousands of Australians who are abused online are not snowflakes. I'm so sick of this victim shaming bullshit."
There was a "stload of stuff" she would accept, but other things she would not.
Molan's breaking point came after she received an extremely disturbing message while pregnant with her two-year-old daughter Eliza.
"I WISH YOU A F***ING STILL BORN, AND YOU DIE IN THE PROCESS. HIP HIP HOORAY," the message said.
Molan said receiving a message like that "really, really hurts" and sent her to "some pretty dark places", particularly given her older sister's experience.
"I have an older sister who had a stillbirth, carried a beautiful little girl to full term, Emily," she said.
"And to watch her bury her child and stand up with a little coffin and say, mummy loves you and she's so sorry.
"To sit there and watch my sister go through that, meant that my pregnancy was fairly anxious throughout. So to start to receive messages of that nature, really impacted me."
Days later, Molan and her fiance were asleep when they heard a loud noise. It was around 2am.
"It sounded like someone had, like a window had smashed or someone," she said.
"It was just a massive, big smash. And I thought that he'd come in, and he was going to try and do what he was saying he was going to do to my baby."
Thankfully, the bang was just a shelf that had fallen off the wall, but it was after that moment that Molan realised she could no longer put up with this level of trolling.
She went to the police, and after the troll sent more and more messages from various fake accounts, the man behind them all - a father of young girls - was charged. He received a suspended sentence.
Australia's new cyber abuse laws are a world-first: They give the eSafety commissioner new powers to have threats, violent material, revenge porn and other vile content removed within 24 hours.
Perpetrators can be whacked with fines and jail terms.
A complaints mechanism will support people who don't want to go to the police or through the courts.
The bill also provides a rapid website-blocking power during an online crisis event, such as the 2019 live-streamed terrorist attacks in Christchurch, New Zealand, that saw regulators helpless while footage went global.
New penalties and powers will take away anonymity from predators on dating sites, internet gambling and private messaging.
The laws build on Carly's Law passed four years ago to protect children from online predators, which focused on social media.
Sonya Ryan, whose 15-year-old daughter Carly was murdered more than a decade ago, says the law needs to keep up with constantly evolving apps and online services, and provide for rapid help.
This article was originally published on October 12, 2020, and has been updated.
-With AAP.
Feature image: Nine/Instagram.
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