My mum can’t cook but she gives great parenting advice.
“Kids need consistency” is one of her favourites.
As a parent of three small girls, this has become my mantra. Whether it’s setting house rules, sticking to sleep routines or having recipes on rotation, the aim is to keep things predictable.
The kids know what to expect and this has helped our household run (relatively) smoothly in our first whirlwind year as a family of five. I can see that our girls thrive in consistency, after a busy day at school or daycare they’re comforted by the rhythm of routines, the reliability of knowing what comes next, and the feeling of safety that comes with it.
It’s not just good for the smallest members of our household. I love my kids but I need time without them. Time to work, workout, catch up with friends, do hobbies... okay, hobby... okay, fine: watch TV. Creating a regular, consistent routine means my husband and I know what needs to get done, so it’s easier to fairly divide things up. Far from boring, it reduces the number of decisions I have to make which in turn reduces my mental load, meaning more headspace and energy for fun things.
If you want to introduce more consistency, and ultimately get more time back for life, I’ve found the easiest place to start is in the kitchen.
Between the lunchboxes, baby weaning, meals and snacks, food prep is just nonstop. Luckily I like cooking, and despite my genetics, consider myself to be quite a good cook. Even still, it’s draining to constantly find and follow new recipes.
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