Have you ever been to a friends house for lunch or dinner, or even afternoon tea for that matter, gobbled down something to die for and innocently asked “Can I get the recipe for that cake / salad / biscuit – It was AMAZING!” only to be smacked in the face by the abrupt (and in my opinion unnecessary) reply of “Oh, I don’t give out my recipes”?
Sorry, what? Who are you? Heston Blumenthal? Adriano Zumbo? Bill Granger? Gordon Ramsay? Hang on a second, all of those World Class Chefs actually do give out their recipes, so what’s the deal?
I’ve never been a recipe protector. I don’t see the point. You want it? You got it! I actually blog my recipes for the world to see. I really don’t understand why anyone would feel the need to conceal the combination of ingredients that form together a dish. By doing this what are they hoping for? That you will be forced to hang out with them if you want to munch on their prized goods?* Honestly, what other reason is there?
I’m trying to see the other side of the argument, as I’m sure there is one.
If a certain recipe was a moneymaker e.g. Colonel Sanders’ special spice combo for KFC chicken or Coca Cola’s secret chemical mix to make the famous drink, then I get it. Actually come to think of it, the same principle could be applied to the famous chef’s I’ve listed above and their schmancy restaurant dishes yet they share their recipes. When push comes to shove people will still go to the well-known chef’s restaurants to eat their dishes cooked by them (or at least by professionals) I mean I think even if you knew that Coca-Cola was made from 120g potassium 240g sodium blah blah blah (I’m an Architect not a scientist) you would still just grab one from Woolworths as opposed to knocking up a batch in your own backyard.
And I get it if the recipe is not yours to share in the first place. For example, on her death bed, your great Aunt Jude gave you her Strawberry and Pop Rocks jam recipe on the condition that you would “never EVER share it” – then okay, I can see how you would want to honour her dying wish.
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I used to obligingly give out my recipes to anyone who would ask. I thought it was flattering that they would even ask me.
However, after many occasions of doing this, with several different people, I would ask them, 'so did you make (insert dish name here)'? Only to be told and embarrassed 'no!'
After being faced with this time after time, I decided that I would no longer share my recipes.
More recently, when asked yet again, by a very close relative, I reluctantly agreed to share a recipe. When she happily presented me, and various others with my signature dish, I was devastated that it didn't taste anything like my dish. It was so far off, it was hardly comparable. I was then faced with people thinking I wasn't such a great cook.
It just reassured me that my 'no sharing' policy is the right choice.
Why do you care so much about whether or not they use the recipe? I'm genuinely curious. Is it because you've taken the time to write it out for them?
While we're on the subject...those of you who do share: Does anyone have a great recipe for gluten free Christmas pud? I'm you're making a pud for 16 and I can't afford to just wing it!