Lauren Rosewarne, University of Melbourne
Of all the feminist alleyways one might stumble down online, a noteworthy one is the menstrual community.
A place where period activism is out, is proud. Where blood becomes ink, becomes lipstick, becomes art. A place where Ani DiFranco’s Blood in the Boardroom plays on a ceaseless loop.
Given their way, this sisterhood might even deify Chinese Olympic bronze medallist Fu Yuanhui. In Rio, explaining her third-place swim, Yuanhui blamed it on cramps.
For feminists who spend any time online, the idea of period talk being forbidden is hilarious. In some places online one wonders whether anything else is ever discussed.
In the broader world, however – and most certainly in the blokey realm of professional sport – to bring blood out of the bathroom and into a mixed-company, live Olympic broadcast was outright shocking.
Yuanhui’s story stood out for me not because of the cramps, but for the swimming-while-bleeding possibility. It served as a quiet tale of tampon use.
For those watching in her motherland of China, Yuanhui’s story was one of possibilities. With only 2% of the population using tampons, she provided information about options.
While in the West it’s been a very long time since Courtney Cox taught us about “internal protection”, or since those so white horseriding and windsurfing commercials aired, many women in China report never having heard of tampons or, at the very least, not knowing anyone who uses them.
In 2011, when I was writing a book about menstruation, women – through zero prompting on my part – would share their period stories and ask me incredibly elaborate questions (mistakenly under the impression I know anything at all about what’s going on).
I’d also often hear “I’ve never used tampons” confessions. Seemingly, some women are convinced they’ve committed a kind of anachronistic, feminine hygiene sin for picking the pad. That, by eschewing the more “discreet” option, renders them less feminist, less empowered, less hip.
Top Comments
I think the Me Luna menstrual cup is brilliant! And I use reusable cloth pads.
I'm actually really glad to hear that most women still wear pads because the constant tampon ads on TV tend to make me feel like I must be some kind of outdated 'grandma' for using pads!
For me, I second the diva cup option! I have ridiculously heavy periods for the first few days of my period that have gotten even worse in the last 12 months or so (combination of PCOS, and getting older!). Using a cup on those days, backed up by a pad, means that I am not restricted to my house on those days for fear of sudden floods! I haven't used tampons in years.
I was started with pads as a kid, and for my kids I will start them off the same - I figure they have to get the hang of what their bodies are doing before they move on to tampons! I don't see tampons as the starter product at all.
Rest assured you are not the last pad devotee. Cups are well liked too and before then I knew quite a few women using sponges. I sew reusable pads for girls and women so I am attracted to this method because it is accessible for a lot of girls and women who don't have access to disposable products. There are new products that are made for slimmer girl bodies which are perfect for teens and women who are smaller. Tampons also have an often untalked about side effect even when used for short times they can create dryness. Bleeding flow can be unpredictable.
As a fellow member of the PCOS club, I am all about the biggest pads I can find. Considering I go through a whole packet every day, I find pads much easier and more comfortable than tampons, and I won't even try a cup.