My first reaction to the news that Victorian senator Derryn Hinch used his maiden speech to “name and shame” sex offenders was to stand up and cheer. I’ve been a longtime admirer of his work to make Australia a safer place, in particular for children who deserve better than to fall into the hands of some vile individual.
The thought of something happening to my children keeps me up at night. Last night I was carrying my seven year old daughter to bed and I kissed her forehead as she giggled, before tucking her in. Having been moved by the reward offered for information on poor little William Tyrell I found myself thinking of something like that happening to her.
What would she do?
What would she say?
Would she cry?
Would she call out for me?
Sometimes it can feel as though parents have the weight of the world on their shoulders trying to ensure their children are safe and happy. Knowing people like Derryn Hinch are out there trying to make things better makes me feel as though it doesn’t all rest on my shoulders.
So what’s so wrong with what Hinch tried to do during his maiden speech?
He promised to use his maiden speech to fire off some bullets in the direction of those he feels most deserve it most, choosing to name mostly sex offenders currently serving jail time. He’s obviously keen not to face jail or prison again, having served time in 1987, 2011 and 2014 for naming paedophiles and their victims.
During his maiden speech this week in parliament he mentioned Brett Peter Cowan – who murdered Daniel Morcombe – and Adrian Bayley – who killed Jill Meagher – both of whom are currently serving lengthy prison terms. His reason for mentioning these two grubs in particular is because both Cowan and Bayley shouldn’t have been free to commit these crimes in the first place owing to their previous convictions.
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Sentencing and parole is a huge problem that needs to be addressed, also a society in which easy to access, online porn viewed from a tender age has become sex ed, and set expectations up from childhood, sexual objectification is self-inflicted by girls and very young women to themselves now, being fwb as a teen instead of dating and losing your virginity to fwbs, and where sexual assault and rape is becoming less seriously regraded, almost 'normal' nowadays. There's an enormous social problem that is spiraling and has no end. Young women's bodies and self-worth, plus the sexual psychology of youth is widely damaged. Young men feel sexually entitled, and why shouldn't they when their wishes are being fulfilled? Their female friends just have casual sex with them now like it's nothing. Kids and adolescents haven't much of a hope in understanding or appreciating intimacy. Some of their misguided actions will cause irreversible damage.
I am in my mid-30s, and spent my teens without internet or mobile phones. I had natural inquisitive fumbling from an early age (14) with boys I dated and had sex with my long term boyfriend - who I loved - from 16. I never felt unsure or unsafe or confused. Just sad about the occasional break up. My private life was private. I felt no pressure to do anything. We just didn't paddle in the complex ocean that exists today. We dipped our toes in then our ankles, and then went up to our knees. It was more of a gentle sea. Now, it's an ocean, an ocean with huge waves, and there are sharks in that ocean.
I wonder, if you owned a house you loved in an area you loved and were settled into, what would your response be if it came to your attention that a registered sex offender had moved into your street, next door, across the road, a few houses down? Also consider potential buyers and renters will look at the register when researching homes for sale. Do you create a separate, gated community for sex offenders only? What's the solution?
Keeping the register private is not so the offenders will be protected from vigilantes, it is to protect the victims. Consider most people are abused by their family members, once the register is public it will be fairly easy to identify victims by people in the public. If your school aged child was abused do you really want every kid in the school to know? Life would be hell.