beauty

"Yes, I cut my daughter's hair. What's the big deal?"

When I announced that I’d cut my daughter’s hair myself I was met with howls of outrage from my mum and from some of my mum-friends.

Apparently six-year-old’s need a proper “hair stylist” to do the job because it’s soooo hard to cut hair. It was just a straight cut for crying out loud, with no layering or tapering required. I just picked it all up into a ponytail and cut it all off.

Then spent the next 40 minutes trying to straighten it up.

In the olden days mums regularly cut their children’s hair themselves. It was normal. There were no fancy hair salons. You might have a barber in town and meals were made from food you grew on the land or traded with a farmer-neighbour. By the third child you pretty much had gotten the hang of the whole hair cutting thing. There were a few unfortunate incidents where haircuts had gone wrong. Perhaps the sheers were blunt. Maybe the child turned their head at exactly the wrong moment, resulting in a bald patch. Clearly, humanity survived.

Caterina's hair before and after I had the audacity to cut it.

It's as if these days kids need to be camera-ready at all times. No crooked hair cuts or bald spots allowed.

Anyway, I didn't do too bad a job of it. It's not like I'm making her wear clothes I've made out of faded curtains. It was just a hair cut and it looked okay, eventually.

I cut my daughter's hair about a month ago. I was sick of trying to get all knots out of it every day so one night I chopped it all off. She has wavy hair like me and unless it's brushed properly every day you end up with dreadlock-like knots.

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She wanted me to cut her hair. We'd been at a birthday party that day for one of her friends and her friend had newly cut hair. Her mum told me that because her daughter's hair was now shoulder-length she could wear it out at school if she wanted. I'd been wanting to cut Caterina's hair for a while but she wanted to grow it long "like a princess".

The next morning she seemed to be feeling a little bit of hair cut regret (haven't we all). But she got a lot of compliments about her new hair at school. Then we went to my mum's house and everyone in my family complimented Caterina's new hair, saying that it suited her.

Caterina is clearly traumatised after having to endure me cutting her hair.

"Where did you get it done," Mum asked.

"I did it," I muttered. Mum's face went from that of gleaming admiration to skeptical. She narrowed her eyes as though she could pick all the faults that two minutes early hadn't been visible to the naked eyes. "It's just a hair cut," I said.

Mum pursed her lips.

"I'll get it fixed up at the hair dresser during the school holidays," I quickly said to fill the silence.

We did get a trim during the school holidays but it wasn't necessary. I'd done a good enough job on it and wouldn't hesitate to do it again. I might even get the hang of it eventually. I still don't know why it was such a big deal.

Have you ever cut your child's hair? Did it turn out well?