'My 25-year-old daughter, Courtney Herron, was killed. Then came a second death. And a third.'

On May 26, 2019, I received an early morning visit from the Victoria Police Homicide Squad. Being a lawyer, I thought it must be about a client. I wish it was.

My 25-year-old daughter, Courtney Herron, had been killed. 

As a parent, my worst nightmare had been realised. I'd lost my child; my first-born, my only daughter.

The following weeks were a daze. I kept hoping it was not true. 

"My daughter's name is etched into Melbourne's consciousness."

Courtney was a powerful advocate against gender-based violence. 

It is a tragic irony that an evil man — an accomplished and violent perpetrator against women — took her life. And in such horrible circumstances. 

She had met her killer, Henry Hammond, the previous evening. He approached her to ask for a cigarette. They shared a conversation, went out for a meal, went to a gathering with her friends. Then, as they walked together through Royal Park that night, he took her life.

When Courtney’s body was found, it took Assistant Commissioner Luke Cornelius to reference that this was "about men’s behaviour (to women)." He was right.

John and Courtney. Image: Supplied. 

Now my daughter’s name is etched into Melbourne’s consciousness for all the wrong reasons. Now she joins the names of Jill Meagher, Eurydice Dixon and Aiia Maasarwe, among others. And my name is forever linked to the remaining parents of these murdered women.

Yet despite these lives taken, there seems to be little change. Women are hurt — or worse — on an industrial scale. Just for going outside or while in their own home.

It's an issue I've seen from another side, too.

As a small-town lawyer, I am on the front line, at what I call the apex of violence against women: where family and criminal law meet. 

What would seem like a quiet street, often hides dark secrets to which I am privy. I also volunteer weekly for St Kilda Legal Service, and I see the problem amplified by the use of methamphetamines. That space is truly out of control.


Since Jill Meagher's murder in 2012 and the subsequent Victorian Family Violence Royal Commission, there has been some good work done. That is the result of some tremendous efforts by governments and the dedication and passion of people I encounter every day. 

But resources are stretched thin, and there are obvious cracks in the apex.

Courtney's case showed just how wide they are.

Courtney. Image: Supplied. 

When Courtney was killed on that May night in 2019, it was only her first death.

Her second death came with the revelation that Hammond had been released early from prison in April 2019, having served just a few months for a violent crime against another woman. In circumstances that make a mockery of the legal system, a judge had sent this perpetrator out into the community four months early and wished him good fortune. Weeks later, he killed Courtney. So what is a woman's life worth?

Her third death came just this week. While there was no doubt that Hammond killed Courtney, on Monday the Crown accepted his plea of not guilty by reasons of mental impairment. 

No parent could accept that verdict. I am compelled to fight; Courtney has to have a voice.

I hear your voices of outrage, too. I hear the utter despair of women who are suffering violence at the hands of these men. They see this outcome and wonder: if the State doesn't care, who will?

But people do care. 

I know the passion of the people working in the family violence space. I know there are many dedicated, talented individuals and executives operating in the Victorian Government. Many. I see the volunteers at shelters, attending court and operating late-night telephones. These are truly the people that make a difference. 

The tide is turning; it's just happening to slowly, especially at the apex of violence against women. And so I will keep speaking up, keep being Courtney's voice.

I remind the authorities that this is not just another legal matter and that on May 25, 2019, a young woman was killed in Melbourne. That woman was my daughter, Courtney Herron.

On a clear night, when I look up at the stars, I know one of them is her, shining down on us all. 

If you or someone you care about is living with family violence please call safe steps 24/7 Family Violence Response Line on 1800 015 188 or visit www.safesteps.org.au for further information.

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