By BERN MORLEY
The summer school holidays are LONG. No, I’m sorry, I need to reiterate, they are Looooong. I’m not entirely sure “who” came up with the brilliant idea to put kids on a massive hiatus over what is essentially the HOTTEST period of time in Australia, but I’d sure like to meet them. And then perhaps have some quiet words with them.
See, it’s different since when I was a kid. When I was little, my school holidays consisted of me trundling out the front door at my convenience in the morning, some bike riding, some swimming, probably in a friend’s pool or a local creek, some more bike riding, some eating whatever was put in front of me at lunch time and then repeating the previous riding/swimming scenario until it was time to have a bath and/or go to bed. If we were lucky we’d see a movie. One movie. In eight weeks. None of this let’s ‘see every single movie that is released during the school holidays’ business. None of this let’s meet at the local kids mega playdome and take out a second mortgage on the house just to walk through the doors.
Now, well now, kids want entertainment and get this, they want to go do STUFF! All. The. Time. Stuff that costs money. What they don’t understand is that every time I agree to take them to a simple movie, I am agreeing to forego their university education if we buy drinks and popcorn.
So I thought about it. If I was going to have to entertain and invigorate these children for weeks on end, they may as well be learning the importance of the money at the same time. But to teach would bore. They had just come in from a whole year of being force fed times tables by Mrs Edgeworth. No, they needed it to be fun. And most importantly, not realise they were even learning.
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My children are grown up so I didn’t go through this hectic “ must make the kids happy” hype, we had a few happy outings and they had many days of entertaining themselves with friends, in our pool, in the bush around the place, in their bedrooms listening to music: their choice. I would constantly say that I might not do what other children’s parents did because I loved them in a different way.
I firmly believe we are too available for our children these days: when do they have the time to develop their creativeness, their ability to just enjoy being alone, to read, to talk, etc
However I must admit many hours in card and board games, a jigsaw puzzle permanently set up on the kitchen table and when they were very young a 6ft by 4ft, 3 ft deep sand pit, lots of water paint and butcher paper, and lots and lots of constructions in the yard out of all sorts of things. When older I had the bits for a go cart that they constructed, they dug out large sections of yard, and had bows and arrows in the back yard. (big yard)
However to learn the value of money I had jars of coins in the kitchen and from an early age they were encouraged to “pay” for drinks and food, for using the tv and so on. I would make up prices each time and they would count the correct amount out.
When older they were given pocket money but had to pay for certain items.
Today I have 4 adults who are careful with their money but still have enough to have holidays, cars and houses.
Just took my son to the bank to withdraw money from his account so he could purchase an ipod. Due to his age, he needs to upgrade to a student account. No fees or charges as per child account except they charge $5 !! if he wants to withdraw at the branch. No charges if he uses an ATM but
$5 if he wants to withdraw at the branch. Good grief.