Having an affair with someone else’s husband is not for the weak of heart.
It may, you argue, be for the weak of character, but that is debatable and, for me, isn’t a thing I agree with.
People slip into having affairs mostly by accident, I think.
As in, I don’t think THAT many people go out looking to cheat on their spouses, but things happen between people. Undeniable chemistry. A single, golden opportunity.
I’ve already written a bit about what it feels like to be the other woman in a relationship, but I can’t stop thinking about what it actually FELT like to be in it — the feelings that went along with the motions.
There wasn’t much emotion that went along with my affair, but I had a lot of feelings, and if you’re in an affair or considering one, consider these feels: I felt wanted, desirable, and sexy.
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Well, first Nate, the man sounds like an absolute Baller. No wonder women are after him.
There are still a handful of states in the US where you can sue a third party for having an affair with your partner and people still do, often a six figure judgement. What would you do if you were on a jury for this case? The affair is admitted to and she was perfectly aware he was married.
$100,000 I say, make it hurt but not totally wipe her out.
What riles me up is that these cheaters justify their affair because, it was a connection like no other or once in lifetime love affair blah blah etc, loyal married people make connections too, they just don’t act on it. You think because they’re loyal and morally good people, they have never made a connection with another human again? They have! They just think about others before themselves that is the difference. You will probably always be a cheater because you are self serving to you first.