Warning: The following deals with suicide. For 24-hour mental health crisis support, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.
Queensland woman, Kath Madgwick, spends a lot of her day ruminating on past decisions.
“I think that if I didn’t move to McKay, if I didn’t do this… would things be different?” she asks herself.
“I think to myself: was I too hard on him?”
She recalls one day when a friend took her to get her hair cut at the local plaza. Mid-appointment she burst in to tears, shaking.
“I was running around so people wouldn’t see me crying,” she tells Mamamia.
“I couldn’t be in the plaza, because there were so many memories of Jarrad and I getting his hair cut.”
On Thursday night, May 30, 2019, Kath lost her 22-year-old son Jarrad Madgwick to suicide.
Prior to his death, Jarrad was experiencing some financial difficulties, says the real estate manager. He was forced to leave his job in disability care due to an alleged bullying incident, had separated from his girlfriend, and was briefly homeless, before moving back home. At the time, Kath estimates he also had a “$5000 debt, and police fines”.
“He started to decline a bit,” says Kath.
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This story is so sad. Financial toxicity is so debilitating on mental health. We do not have near enough services to support people through difficult financial times. And Centrelink is such a horrible process. How can it be improved? I feel for this Mother.
Centrelink is the pits. Seriously. The government has all of our information, yet it is up to us to update stuff on every single government website, or go through the drama of waiting on hold for hours only to be cut off and have to call again. No wonder I know so many people who just don't even bother when they are entitled to so many benefits. I have 4 children and the dental scheme would help with 4000 dollars every 2 years, but hey... I don't bother and I save up for my children because heaven forbid I'll have to pay back thousands, apparently!
There needs to be some serious overhaul in how our information is handled. All these suicides, all these bogus notifications that stress people out need to stop. In an age where everything is digital it's not impossible to do things right.
C'mon ..
I didnt think you had I've on Centrelink to get the dental cover rounder-18s? Don't you jus use Medicare card?
Unfortunately no. If you are not eligible for family tax benefit (or in my case don't even bother finding out if you are for fear of being over paid and having to pay it back) you are not eligible for the dental scheme.
Unfortunately no. You need to be receiving certain benefits (ie FTB part A) to receive the dental benefits scheme.