For Carrie Bickmore, Christmas isn’t the joyous kind of holiday and celebration we typically assume it to be.
Instead, it’s a painful and unwelcome reminder of the people she desperately misses and those she would prefer near.
In a new column for Newscorp’s Stellar Magazine, Bickmore made the raw and frank admission that Christmas is far from her favourite time of year.
“As an adult, I know exactly why I find Christmas hard. It’s the time of year I lost someone I loved dearly; it’s a time I am reminded of those wonderful humans who shaped my past but no longer sit at the table with us,” she wrote.
“I miss their cinnamon-smelling hugs, their bad jokes, their funny Christmas videos. Christmas is not the same without them. Every day is not the same without them, but at Christmas it feels amplified.”
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Gawd this is so maudlin!
TheMissus I don't believe for a second that Carrie lets her sadness stop her from creating joy for those around her or not feel grateful for what she does have. She mentions that in her article and that she still makes it a good time especially for her children. She is also being honest about how she feels that it is a difficult time of year for her as she lost someone significant at this time of year. The anniversary of a passing of a loved one is difficult for almost everyone. Christmas isn't a happy time for everyone, for some people it is a really painful lonely time. & I think she is trying to relate to those who feel the same way by sharing her own struggles. Good on you Carrie.
Well said.