Take a deep breath. You are about to meet someone extraordinary.
If you — like most humans — struggle to get everyone out the door in the morning with two shoes on, have an internal dialogue of your mother yelling at you about all the things you’re screwing up, and spent most of the waking hours of your mat leave eating banana bread and stealing sleep where you could, you are going to feel a little bit confronted by Emma Isaacs.
She is an entrepreneur extraordinaire, a businesswoman juggling three fully-staffed offices in four time zones — and she has four kids under six. She gave birth to each of them at home, and then went straight back to work.
BUT, before you start feeling defensive about Emma’s ability to seemingly “do it all”, you need to hear this extraordinarily honest interview on Mamamia’s podcast I Don’t Know How She Does It about outsourcing, why balance is bullshit, letting go of guilt, and yes, collapsing in a heap every three months.
She even admits she sometimes does the school-run in her pajamas:
Listen on iTunes here.
It’s safe to say that Emma doesn’t do life by the book.
At the age of 18, the Sydneysider bought her first Australian business — a recruitment agency.
By 25, she had expanded and sold that business, and bought Business Chicks, a networking group for female businesswomen. Now, at 35, she has made it global hosting around 60 events a year, calls Sir Richard Branson a friend, and has just moved the whole family to Los Angeles.
It’s no surprise then that when Emma gave birth to her four children (no multiples, four separate births), she decided to do it unconventionally, at home. In a bath. In front of her fire.
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Invincible? Hmmmm....extremely lucky more like it. When things go wrong during labour, they go wrong extremely quickly, and with potentially catastrophic results that the poor paramedics and ER staff are expected to clean up.
It really isn't like that, honestly. The paragraph below sums up a 2012 Cochrane Review on the benefits and harms of planned homebirths. The Cochrane Review is where they put together all the trials and results together and see what they get. This is what they say, I'd like to link it for you, but my comment keeps not getting through. But if you want to read the whole thing, google Cochrane review home birth.
'Most pregnancies among healthy women are normal, and most births could take place without unnecessary medical intervention. However, it is not possible to predict with certainty that absolutely no complications will occur in the course of a birth. Thus, in many countries it is believed that the safest option for all women is to give birth at hospital. In a few countries it is believed that as long as the woman is followed during pregnancy and assisted by a midwife during birth, transfer between home and hospital, if needed, is uncomplicated. In these countries home birth is an integrated part of maternity care. It seems increasingly clear that impatience and easy access to many medical procedures at hospital may lead to increased levels of intervention which in turn may lead to new interventions and finally to unnecessary complications. In a planned home birth assisted by an experienced midwife with collaborative medical back up in case transfer should be necessary these drawbacks are avoided while the benefit of access to medical intervention when needed is maintained. Increasingly better observational studies suggest that planned hospital birth is not any safer than planned home birth assisted by an experienced midwife with collaborative medical back up, but may lead to more interventions and more complications. However, there is no strong evidence from randomised trials to favour either planned hospital birth or planned home birth for low-risk pregnant women.'
I agree! And then once emergency strikes the much maligned hospital and medical staff jump into action to save the lives of mother and baby. And of course all for free! I bet none of these women who create a huge drama by having a homebirth go pear shaped even have the decency to make a donation to the hospital that saves their lives.
Oh god, home birthers, one rung up from anti vaxxers. Yeah! Let's throw out 200 years of medical scientific progress and just wing it.