Confession: I’m not quite on board with World Breastfeeding Week.
You would think, wouldn’t you, that a Parenting Editor, a feminist, a mother, and someone generally interested in making sure every child has access to the care and opportunities they need for their future, that I’d be first in line to support World Breastfeeding Week.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m in the line to do it. Breastfeeding should be promoted, and breastfeeding mothers and their children should be celebrated and protected.
But I feel a sense of internal conflict about the whole thing.
I suspect that sense is due, in part, to my own personal story. Breastfeeding never quite worked for me; a combination of circumstance, psychology, a physiology that made it difficult and at least with my second child, a complete lack of desire to push myself into something I mentally recoiled from.
Alys, with the two children she never quite managed to breastfeed. Images supplied.
But having been upfront about my personal bias, here's what I want to say.
Are we sure breastfeeding advocates in Australia are being completely honest?
Breastfeeding advocates consistently claim that breastfeeding will help prevent SIDS, infections in the gut and respiratory system and obesity as well as promoting a higher IQ and better mother/child bonding.
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My youngest sister and I failed quite hard at being babies - there are only four things a baby needs to do: sleep, eat, waste and grow. But my sister and I were lactose intolerant even as infants. With me, it wasn't really noticed - I just failed to thrive and my mother changed to formula - with my sister within two weeks we knew something was wrong.
I am no where near ready to have a baby but I've come to terms with the fact that my children will likely not be breast fed either.
I wish that by the time I am ready this drive so many seem to have to be outperforming and put down others in whatever way they can has at the very least left this issue. Surely, feeding your child, however you can is an act of love and a love not exclusive to mothers who can breastfeed.
Sigh.
Articles like this are just perpetuating the debate.
Just let women do what they want for goodness sake.
Science says breast is best.
Mother Nature says fed is best.
That's just life.
Stop making it an issue and it won't be an issue.