There are so many ‘rules’ about being a good mum, it’s enough to send your anxiety levels soaring.
If you are breastfeeding there are even more ‘rules’. And, because these rules are about feeding your baby and actually making them grow and stay alive, is it any wonder you feel anxious? Take heart: the first rule of mothering is ‘don’t let anybody ‘should’ on you.’
This is your baby and your body and just as you are figuring out this whole new mother business, you and your baby will work out breastfeeding together. You may need a little help and please don’t wait until you are really worried before you reach out. There is practical help and advice out there from lactation consultants and trained breastfeeding counsellors who will encourage and support you if the going gets tough.
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Breastfeeding is a unique experience for every mom around. What works well with some may not be the best for others. Let's keep on respecting and supporting each other's decisions in parenthood.
It’s also ok to bottle feed if you have tried everything and breastfeeding is not working.
Please do not feel guilty.
Breast is not always best.