Ahh life. It’s confusing at times. The lines between what is “right” and what is “wrong” are becoming more and more blurred. What someone might see to be liberating another might see to be attention seeking. What someone sees as self-loving another will see as self-obsessed. What someone sees as being confident another will see as pathetically insecure.
It’s pretty much guaranteed that each time you pop on to social media, you will see a photo of a girl in a bikini. Whether it the latest brand of clothing you have followed or a friend of a friend’s cousin that for some reason you still have an interest in, there is mostly going to be some kind of representation of a semi-naked woman.
Last week I uploaded a photo of myself in a bikini to my Instagram story. This photo was up for a total of three hours before my brain completely over thought the choice I had made and I deleted it.
I was walking with a friend that afternoon and she asked me why I had chosen to delete it, after over 200 of my followers had already seen it.
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Firstly your a gorgeous and amazing girl.if anyone is saying hertful things its about them hurting not about you hurting.Im in the beauty industry and there is alot of pressure for women to look a certain way to be exepted. You know whats even harder men are taught to think us women need to look like this if you don't your judged by them. What about our personalities and who we are? I feel we get overlooked by how amazing we are inside not just out. No ones intrigued about getting to know anyone anymore. Arnt people curious or is it just about sex and scial media. Wakeup people.Society has become boring and everything doesnt always need to be put on show to prove ones worth.we are teaching men to seek only perfection. Men especially need to open there eyes about this. But women need to stop selling themselves through images.we are teaching men to look for women who only have physical assets exepted by the media, when they get her number, there is no follow through to get to know her. No interest. One point kid you not and my friends are a witness, nine guys asked for my number. Not one of them took me out for dinner not even a coffee to get to know me. I was proberbly being compared and some other better looking girl has obviously attracted their attention.There is always better looking out there what about me as a person. This topic gutters me.This is how shallow society has come. So why would they even bother taking my number. An ego boost i guess. Image is shit who you are as a person ladies is what matters. Be sure of yourself and stuff shallow people in society. This needs to be talked about more. I dont have jelous bone in my body infact i admire women who are beautiful and i see them every day being in the beauty industry. what makes a girl more more beautiful is their personality that matches the exterior. So to men or women who look purely for women with a great image but thats about it, good luck finding a genuine long term relationship. Looks fade and we are all going to grow old then what are we left with our personalities not just our looks.